I have a group on FB called “Livestock Guardian Dogs and Conservation: The Way of the Future“. As FB groups go, it’s a calmer, more fact-focused, resourceful group. The main goal of the group is to raise awareness of the importance of Livestock Guardian Dogs in the rewilding we are seeing globally. It may sometimes feel like too little, too late, but we are finally realizing how significant it is for our planet to once again support a richer, more diverse ecosystem.
Alongside this, we have a record number of people on this planet, a need to feed them and house them. Both of these things run straight up against the work we are doing in nature, and how nature is changing all on its own. How can we support the diversification of the ecosystem and still meet the growing needs of a burgeoning human population? The answers are multi-faceted and not simple by any means, but the fact that we’ve been systematically getting away from transhumance and the rural lifestyle is not doing us any favors as we seek them. Old wisdom has been lost or is harder to find. Younger people are having to pick up the discarded torches and try to find their way, literally, through the wilderness.
The fact that rewiliding initiatives are targeting abandoned farmland as a way to jumpstart their programs is a pertinent symbol of how urban focused our current policies are. On the face of it, leaving the rural land to the wildlife and moving people to cities might seem like a good way forward, but underneath, there is much more we need to recognize. Ironically, the very thing we think will reconnect us to the planet is actually isolating us from it. I believe that we must continue to coexist with wildlife in physical space, if only to bear witness and continue to stand in the gap between what animals want and need from us and what humans want and think they need out of life. If no one stays, we will be unable to resist becoming a hive-like mind that has forgotten what we are made of. We will exist in a vacuum that encourages us to be takers only, not managers, not guardians. It’s true that we may well be fighting a losing battle, where all animals will be raised in robotic-run barns and we will buy their souls packaged in little foam trays at the nearest box store, but I – and many like me – believe that it’s a fight worth stepping up for. If we lose the ecological benefits of controlled grazing and farming on a small scale, if we lose the ability to choose how and where our meat is raised – if we lose the resiliency, co-existence and breeding selection pressures that small farming and transhumance offer us, we lose what makes us uniquely human. The ability to negotiate with an environment we cannot control and to meet our needs alongside those of predator and prey is a skill set we cannot lose. We will lose touch with our planet. When I think about the current trends in policy making around this subject, I tear up a bit. Urban life does not naturally lend itself to the comprehension of what is sacrificed in order to be a consumer-directed world. We see that more and more every day.
One of the greatest things about what I do is that I get to meet some brave and phenomenal people who are working hard to stand there in the gap and say over and over again how much we need to preserve the “old” ways. For some, this means advocating for continued acknowledgement of the rural life. For others, it’s living the lifestyle themselves. For still others, it’s running formal programs that target the retention of the ways of transhumance and small farming – further, retention of the stock and LGD genetics that make it all possible. One such person is Hamza Habib, an engineering student, small farmer and Bakarwal LGD preservation specialist in Pakistan. We have had some very interesting conversations about his experiences there, conversations that highlight the passion Hamza has for the Bakarwal people and dogs of his region.
Hamza, who recently thoughtfully bred a litter of working Bakarwal Dogs, is one of a few vocal people online strongly focused on retaining appropriate LGD instincts in the Bakarwal Dog landrace. The trouble with raising the profile (and this has been true historically) of LGD breeds/landraces, especially obscure ones, is that certain people immediately want to exploit their aggressive traits for profit. The Russian government did this most famously with the Ovtcharkas of the Caucus mid 20th century, and it’s been a ‘thing’ ever since. It’s not surprising that the proponents of the Bakarwal Dogs Preservation Project have to actively combat this online and on the ground. Breed preservation initiatives are always a double edged sword, but oh so necessary.
Check out these beauties:
These are siblings from the litter Hamza produced. He retained these two to work on his family’s farm. Most of the pups are working, given back to farmers who need them to protect against the encroaching wolves in the area. As they haven’t seen wolves in Pakistan for decades, specific genetics need to be cultivated to produce effective guardians. Hamza has found these genetics in the dwindling Bakarwal Dog population. He reports that the pups he’s bred are loyal, nurturing and fierce. They are designed to exist on minimal foodstuffs. They naturally want to partner with him and to be in his favor.
If you’re not familiar, the Bakarwal are a nomadic people. They live a life most of us love to romanticize, but could never possibly sustain. They carry on the centuries-old traditions of transhumance, even if more within borders than ever before. More about their history and lifestyle (and beautiful pictures!) can be found here , here and here. Just like in many countries now, their lifestyle and wisdom is less and less valued by both their fellow citizens and the government. It is the work of people like Hamza that I personally hope will stem that tide of change. To that end, I will be making a point of highlighting these initiatives in an ongoing way on this blog, so that the information can be found in an effective and easy-to-share format.
The people working their fingers to the bone to buck the thoughtless urbanizing trend deserve at least that. Our planet deserves at least that.
Recently, in conversation with a well-regarded trainer in the US about one of his client dogs, I stopped his description of intending to train “Place” (asking the dog to stay on an object or in an area until invited off/out) with this question:
“But what do you do when you can’t use obedience training as a short cut to building relationship?”
There was a silence and then he replied that he wasn’t sure.
I continued with:
“How do you get what you need from a dog in terms of self control when you cannot use food/play/force or repetition to get there?”
He was a wonderful sport and played along, responding by asking me what I thought should be done instead.
These questions are, in my opinion, at the crux of all of the problems we run into when working with dogs who have an innately independent mindset. Ask anyone who has spent any time with a working bred aboriginal type dog, be it LGD, hound, spitz or the less common herding breeds and they’ll tell you that these dogs embody the very definition of the independent mindset. For many of them, food can be a simple way to encourage them to bond with us, but others, like LGDs and sighthounds quite often won’t be manipulated in that way. In fact, the more we insist on ‘making’ them do things, the less they respect us. This is what people are actually dealing with when they claim that certain dogs are too “stubborn” or “dumb” to train. They claim that these dogs don’t have a brain in their heads, when it’s actually the handlers who don’t know how to speak their language.
People who don’t know how to handle certain animals resorting to allegations that it’s the animal’s fault? Say it ain’t so. This is has been going on since the beginning of domestication.
You’d think it’d be obvious that the human in the equation should try a little harder and work a little smarter. If the arguments I’ve seen on social media and the conversations I’ve had with other dog people are any indication, it’s not so obvious as it should be. It’s never acceptable to ignore an entire subsection of the canine population like this. Shame on the industry for encouraging that to happen.
So what do you do with an independent dog like our LGDs? Well, for some people, their answer has been to try to breed that out of them. Their dogs and their progeny become hollow shells of what they were intended to be. While it’s true that our LGD breeds/types are all found along the spectrum of biddability (biddable: easily led, taught, or controlled :docile), they should always retain what I call a ‘split brain’. This means that a significant portion of their brain should be dedicated to autonomous, independent thought processes. We should never be able to, nor should we even want to, hijack this portion for our own ends. The retention of this precious quality is VITAL for their ability to work effectively. We have no need of a LGD who needs to look to us for every decision, for every move. How could we leave them with our precious stock then?
At the same time, we need to be able to shape their instincts and help them learn how to control themselves. This part of their brain is dedicated to relationship and is where we need to take our influence very seriously. We need to be able to step in when they get it wrong (think over-guarding with newborn babies for instance or if they decide to take matters into their own hands with a human stranger); this is especially true when we raise them outside of a familial grouping as we do so often in developed, westernized countries.
So what is the answer to this particular issue of retaining fierce independence while impacting behavior and motivation? It’s pretty simple, really. Learn. Listen to them. Up your observation skills. Increase the methods in your repertoire. Acknowledge that there is more than one kind of dog out there. Stop approaching this work from an idealized ethical standpoint or with all kinds of force. These dogs don’t care what you learned in a book or from Koehler. They care about doing what they were meant to do, and if you aren’t relevant to that, you won’t be relevant to anything. If you don’t want to get hurt, if you don’t want the dog to check out on you and you still want to get from A to B, put your ego aside. Put away any piece of you that thinks you know what these dogs are about because you’ve had x number or x other kinds of dogs all your life. Approach this as a novel experience, a learning opportunity to expand your horizons and your toolbox. Resist the temptation to extrapolate endlessly from the few experiences with LGDs you’ve had or the stories/advice you’ve heard on Facebook and in poorly written literature. Those are nothing more than interesting fairy tales. Anything you follow should be able to withstand scrutiny and be able to prove results, period.
Utilize critical thinking. If you’re not getting the results you need quickly, if you’re relying more and more on management as a way of getting where you need to go, if you can’t handle or control these dogs without all kinds of equipment/set ups, you’re on the wrong track.
Yesterday, I fed Titus and Ivy from my hand in various spots on my property. They took each piece of kibble from my hand with respect for me and for each other. Titus put himself into a “Sit” and waited patiently while I fed one first to Ivy and then to him. When a piece landed on the ground, he refrained from jumping on it. We walked from place to place without leashes, without manipulation or force. We repeated the feeding exercise. I shared with them how wonderful I thought they were for offering deference and staying engaged with me. At the end, we played together and had a few cuddles. When I fed him the rest of his meal in a dish later, he ran ahead of me and put himself in a sit, waiting patiently until the bowl hit the ground and he heard me release him to eat. When he was done, he didn’t even attempt to touch Ivy’s dish.
Last week, Titus picked a fight with Ivy because food was present. He had his ass handed to him since she is still able to do so. This was not the first time he’d picked a fight like that. He’s had trouble with self control since the get go. He’d knocked food out of people’s hands, he’d jump up and down like a pogo stick, he’d walk in front of people and throw himself at their feet to get what he wanted (whether affection or food), he’d put his face in whatever and wherever he thought appropriate without so much as a thought process. Ivy’d dealt with his obnoxiousness more than once. He wasn’t learning.
Now he is.
This is literally a dog who has outstanding LGD instincts, who has simply lacked self control. I’m not going to just manage that until he matures. That’s not sustainable and doesn’t teach him anything. The lack of self control bleeds into all kinds of areas of his life. I don’t have an older male to teach him and keep him in line, so it’s been down to me. He didn’t have that enough where he was bred either (this is quite a common thing especially with small litters and not at all criticism), so I’ve been dealing with counteracting a lifetime of reinforcement for inappropriate behavior. My life was chaotic when he first arrived and for a while afterwards, due to the move, kids, school…so I didn’t get on it quickly enough either.
The point is that it’s fixable. It’s trainable. I’m doing that, and not with rote obedience regimes. Titus is responding and we’re all getting to that place of mutualistic symbiosis we need for this farm to run smoothly. Will he get to a place where he’s the boss of all things LGD here? It’s quite possible and I fully anticipate that that will happen. Right now is not the time as he’s not mentally or physically ready for that. So he has had to learn his place, outside of the strong family pack he would have had to help teach him in his country of origin.
To his credit, he’s getting it. To mine, I know how to speak to him so he listens.
Winter prep is in full swing here on the farm, and as it’s the first time all is down to me to plan, execute and assess, I’m a bit nervous. This is further complicated by the fact that I’m in a new area of the country on a new piece of property and just don’t have a really good feel for what to expect. That said, I’m not one to ever back down from a challenge easily and I have wonderful family support, so all will be well – or at least doable. Winter in the colder parts of Canada is a bit like entering a deep, winding tunnel that just has to be traveled through no matter what. At some point the light will show up in the distance and you’ll know that you’re going to get through to the other side. It can be brutal, but there is a lot of truth to the notion that tough circumstances breed tough people.
Titus and Ivy are getting to know each other better and better all the time. Ivy had a harder time adjusting to being back with me than I’d expected, but most likely a fair bit of that had to do with the fact that I was no longer on familiar turf. Titus also had a slower start on the farm, but through some focused binary feedback is maturing in leaps and bounds. I’m very pleased with his capacity for ‘single event learning’, meaning his ability to learn something the first time he experiences it or receives feedback about it. I’ll be detailing more about this important LGD trait, as well as talking more about the dynamics between him and Ivy as their relationship continues to develop.
I’m working on a post about Resource Guarding (RG), a fancy term we trainers use for the behavior dogs show when they don’t want anyone else to touch or take their possessions. There are two main types: RG against other dogs/animals and RG against humans. We’ll talk in depth about both of those, how to assess if the RG is normal or abnormal, strategies to prevent and address it and a bit of perspective on RG in LGDs in particular. This seems to be a subject that comes up quite often with people who are used to using certain training methods with other types/breeds of dogs or who have had some success in the past with forceful methods of behavior modification. This may turn into a series of posts, considering how involved the subject matter is.
This year, I’ve had one trainer in particular reach out to me for advice with LGDs. I’ve been thrilled with how receptive he is to learning about the mind of the working LGD. As more and more LGDs are making their way onto small holdings and into urban areas, we are in desperate need of ensuring the right information gets into the hands of the trainers and behavior consultants who see them first. This can be the difference between life and death for these beloved dogs. To that end, I’ve opened a consulting service that focuses on both domestic and international consultation with a deeply discounted service for non-profit organizations. The focus will be on training and problem solving for the oft difficult to understand working dog mind.
So there is a lot in the works! I continue to be a slave to my domestic and farm duties as well as to my COO Saluki siblings (if you’ve ever been owned by sighthounds, you’ll understand) so life is just as I like it: busy. Looking forward to continuing to hear your stories, so keep them coming. You can find me on FB anytime as well at Rolling Spruce Farm or Guard Dog Consulting .
I didn’t think it would be possible. I’m back.
Ivy’s back too. That’s a story and a half – one I’ll have to share sometime when I have a bit more time. For now, suffice it to say that the stars came together in a way I didn’t believe in and Ivy’s wonderful new owner gave her back to me. I missed my girl terribly; I didn’t realize how much at all until I saw her.
So after a year in suburban hell, I am back on land. It’s not the same farm and it’s not even in the same province as before, but it’s a beautifully treed 15 acres on a hill. My view is phenomenal. At this point, you couldn’t pay me to leave.
There isn’t much infrastructure on the particular plot, unlike the old farm. It’s both good and bad: lots of work and expense, but we can make it how we like. All of my kids are here with me and I have a wonderful partner who is learning the ropes of the farm when she’s up visiting from the city. I’m a very lucky woman indeed.
With little in the way of buildings or pens, I’m building the livestock piece bit by bit. Winter is fast approaching so it’s vital I have enough feed and sufficient space for the few animals I have already. I picked up a couple of goats and lambs in the spring who have largely been yard animals, venturing into the 4-strand barbed wire pastures from time to time. The land is lush with clover and too many grass varieties to count. There were horses on the land, but only a couple on all these acres means that there is a lot of vegetation that’s been growing unhindered.
The two lambs are slated for the freezer for winter, although the kids are lobbying to keep the sweetest one. He didn’t get banded for various reasons and I’m loathe to spend the money at the vet to fix him since we already have a pet goat, so we will have to see how it plays out. Both lambs are wool sheep and honestly I’m so glad I didn’t get more of those. The burrs, bushes and trees on the property translate into a nasty, dirty fleece. With that in mind, I’ve decided to go with hair sheep. Now there’s a sentence I didn’t think I’d ever make.
One thing I learned quickly after settling in is how fierce and bold the local coyotes are. The two horses that were here on the property for a month after I moved in kept most of them off the yard, but of course when they left we lost that protection. The horses were quite stressed at the effort they had to put in to keep the ‘yotes at bay. The ones we had in Manitoba never missed an opportunity to see if they could find an unprotected opening to an easy meal, but their flight bubbles were still pretty large. This Northern Albertan variety has a bit more moxie. Even with two LGDs on the property (behind fences) we still found one on the yard close up by the house. He didn’t want to move off either. This should be an interesting adventure. There are a lot of raptors and foxes here that will be of more concern too once we have smaller stock like chickens to worry about.
Did I say that I have TWO LGDs? Well I do! In a twist of fate, Inghams Farms in Ontario had a litter of registered Armenian Gamprs out of the fabulous RM Karine. Karine is a brilliant working Gampr bitch I was able to meet when the Inghams lived not too far from us in Manitoba. I was so happy to find out that the male in the litter became available, and flew him out at 4 months of age. Meet Titus, named after the character of the same name in Netflix’s Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt. I’ll be blogging about our adventures in training Titus, keeping up with Ivy and growing the ruminant flock as we go along. We’ll need a lot more of them to clear the land, that’s for sure.
As I’m wrapping up my life on this farm, I find myself thinking about the hard and fast rules that I wish current and prospective owners knew about working LGDs. Here is a compilation of some of them for easy reference.
Do not buy a pup who has not been handled or socialized. This stupid trend NEEDS to end and the only way that will happen is if buyers stop supporting it.
Do not wait to address inappropriate behavior. Teach your pup or dog the expected rules (ie. manners) from the get go. More problems occur because owners slough off the responsibility to teach their pups and then wonder why the now-large LGD is behaving badly and not listening.
Don’t post: “ISO perfect young LGD who will never make a mistake, or challenge a fence.” Where do you think LGDs come from, a robot factory? If you have no time to put in and expect perfection right out of the gate, abandon the idea of a LGD. I’ll happily slap you myself if you don’t.
Don’t expect more of your dog than they can handle for their age or experience. A small pup is not the physical or mental equivalent of a mature LGD. No one with half a brain thinks that a young herding pup could move sheep all day or a pup raised for detection work could sniff for bombs all day long – no, working dogs are given time to mature and learn the ropes before being thrown in the deep end. Get a grip and stop being an idiot.
Socialize all pups. Don’t look for excuses not to and don’t think up reasons why you can’t. DO IT. If anyone says otherwise, run -don’t walk – away. They’re just playing “expert”. Ain’t no one got time for that. (See the previous post for a more elaborate explanation on “experts”.)
If it comes down to practicality or taking the long way around when it comes to training techniques, choose practicality. LGDs are working dogs. They understand clear, honest communication as long as your overarching priority is to retain and build relationship.
Do not rescue a dog that you are not equipped to handle, no matter how much other people pressure you to or how badly you want to “save a life”. Only do it if you are certain you can handle the consequences if everything goes sideways. You could well end up on the business end of a set of sharp teeth or picking up dead stock in your pasture. When in doubt, leave the rehabbing to the experts.
Don’t limp a broken dog along. Dogs are mentally broken for different reasons, but it always comes down to either nature or nurture – genetics or care. The fact of the matter is that unlike many other dogs, LGDs grow into a certain hardness that is difficult, if not impossible, to change. They are meant to be this way so that once taught well, they are able to stick to their guns no matter what goes on around them. Unfortunately, this also means that a dog who is treated badly early on may well never get past it. It also means that while a pup is fairly malleable (especially when very young), this window closes quite rapidly and often isn’t long enough to make up for genetic deficiencies.
Start giving a crap about health. The LGDs we have here are often so inbred or overbred that health problems are wide sweeping and endemic. If a breeder wants to give you a laundry list of things you cannot do with their dogs or has dogs who are impaired or consistently passing away early, don’t buy from them. A good lifespan for a working LGD should be well past year 10, especially if they are not under a lot of strain from predators. Dogs should not be falling apart in the pasture before then.
There is never any substitution for a well bred, stable, dog. EVER. If you choose to limp a dog through their inherent problems, don’t breed them. If the problem is not genetic in origin, remember that even issues that arise due to environment or handling can and will impact future generations. Seek a qualified independent assessment of your dog or try to match them with a mate who is strong in their weak areas. This way, at least some of the litter should be better equipped to deal with life.
A dog who is mean to your children or young stock is not a good LGD. Period. No more needs to be said on the subject.
Stick your tongue out at anyone who tells you that LGDs are mystical creatures who lived with unicorns back in the cradle of civilization and eat lions for lunch. LGDs are pretty special, but they are first and foremost dogs and need to be treated as such. They make mistakes, they need training, and they need a capable human to lean on from time to time.
LGD/non-LGD crosses DO NOT MAKE GOOD LGD PROSPECTS. Stop testing this, stop thinking you know better or can be a part of a new wave of exciting non-traditional LGDs. You’re being a moron like many morons before you. If it was possible to consistently produce good LGDs from such pairings, they’d be everywhere by now.
Get off the large LGD forums. There are so many voices on there that are just loud, not necessarily informed or experienced. You’re going to do much better by doing some independent reading, stalking of smaller groups, following common sense and listening to your gut if you have one. You’re going to do much better by digesting different portions of information that make a lot of sense than by trying to do random things people tell you to do online. Stop outsourcing your research and your thinking. In this day and age, there is no excuse for being naive about any new venture.
Finally, YOU alone are ultimately responsible for your choice to employ LGDs. You are responsible for everything your dogs do. Take it seriously and don’t be a part of the reason why the use of LGDs is restricted in the future. Protect your dog and protect your community equally.
I am going through some major life changes right now that mean the farm is being sold off. Believe it or not, selling the stock and leaving the property hurts miles less than having to part with the dogs. I tried and tried to sort out a way to keep at least my best girl, Ivy, but in the end it became clear that I would need to do what always allows me to sleep at night: whatever is best for the dog.
At this time, all that’s left on my farm is a few sheep, the poultry and Ivy.
All I wanted to do with this blog was to come back and write a farewell and good wishes post and hope that somewhere along the way some of what I said got through to some people. For all intents and purposes, I was done – that is, until I got a couple of desperate messages from people who were at their wits’ end with with their LGDs. To be fair, this is nothing new and I’ve spoken about that at length before. What makes the stress different for these people is that they are far from uncaring and stubborn; they have been working hard to do everything RIGHT.
Both personally and online, I’m seeing a huge, alarming rise in the number of people who are trying everything to do right by their LGDs and STILL ending up with messes on their hands. It used to be that people didn’t want to hear the truth about themselves and their dogs (don’t get me wrong, there are still plenty of those people around) but the new breed of LGD owner knows they don’t know much about these dogs and actively seeks knowledge. They know how to use Google to their advantage, they know to order books and join social media groups for more than just posting cute pictures. They are thirsty for information…. and guess what? There are plenty of idiots willing to give it to them.
The LGD world is no different than any other dog world niche in that the information pipeline mainly consists of two types of people. The first type is the ‘old timer’ who constantly points out how many years of experience they have. They often reference the old Yahoo groups and talk endlessly about how people need to just shut up and LISTEN to those who have been in the game since the first color TVs came on the market. That kind of experience is, honestly, hard to argue with. Newcomers are dazzled (I know I was) by the claims these people make and the sheer numbers they spout continuously. Unfortunately for them, some of us have other hard won dog knowledge – and know that a dog person can have two types of experience: the same year over and over again or an evolving kind. You can spot the old timers who have the former by using one simple trick. Do they say they know it all and have seen it all? Then they haven’t. The latter, aka anyone worth their salt, will always say that they are continuously learning and cannot possibly have seen it all in one lifetime. They don’t want to preach, yell and wag their finger as much as they want to listen and help people sort out their dogs. They are often too busy living their lives and actually working with dogs and stock to be constantly online waiting to pounce on the next newbie to come along.
The second type of information source is what I call the nouveau expert. These are people who have other types of dog experience – training, showing, rescue, etc. – and who have decided that they’ve listened enough to old timers to make up their own minds on things. Truthfully, this is a very good starting point for building up a library of knowledge. Unfortunately, this is where most of these people stop. Many of them have very little experience to weight their “knowledge” against; further, they don’t actively seek out this experience. They may have bred a litter they needed a lot of help with but haven’t had any working dogs (like the President of the Maremma Club when she took office), they may have been showing one type of LGD in the ring but haven’t successfully kept one in a pasture (like a certain Kuvasz breeder in BC, Canada), they may talk beyond their abilities, make things up and have an inflated sense of importance because of their old timer friends and a ruthless dictatorship policy (like a certain young owner of a couple of large FB LGD groups), they may want all dogs to respond to positive methods only, despite any evidence to the contrary (like a certain FB troll), or they may have rescued a breed for years that has little working ability any longer and now claim to be a fount of knowledge which includes sending working dogs to pet trainers (like the head of the GP rescue in my province). You get the idea. These are people who are capitalizing on their tiny bit of experience with working dogs for profit and prestige. You will never catch them saying that they don’t know something – they’ll either just make it up or ask someone who does behind the scenes. If you press them on any point or provide evidence to counter their speeches, things do not go well for you.
Both of these types are infallible – one has little understanding that their limited bubble of experience isn’t the sum total of global reality and the other is peddling their preconceived point of view without earning their stripes in any way, shape or form.
After these years watching them and dealing with their messes, I have a message for these people:
I AM SICK TO DEATH OF YOUR BULLSHIT. The games you are playing out online are costing LGDs and their owners way, way too much. Your agendas may look all neat and tidy as you’re pounding the keyboard and perusing your online empires, but they are NOT. People like me have been cleaning up the fucking messes you’ve been making – and the hits just keep coming. STOP. Grow a conscience and stop. These are lives you’re fucking with.
You claim to want to stop the unnecessary destruction of LGDs, but guess what’s really happening? You’re CAUSING IT. Get a grip, get out there and learn a thing or two. Actually look at these dogs you’re “helping”. Look at pictures, look at video. Go to see them. Bring them to your farm – if you even have one. Rehab a couple and be transparent about the successes and failures. Do the heavy lifting once in a while. Get experience with all kinds of LGDs, all sizes, all breeds, all temperaments – and stop slagging things you don’t understand.
Shut your mouth and listen – learn something new as often as you can. Give up the power trip and stop being such a fucking fake. People like me see right through you.
I have something else to tell you. Owners keep telling me that I am the most knowledgeable and helpful person they’ve ever talked to. This does not comfort me, especially not now that I have to leave the beautiful world of the working LGD. This means that the other people they can reach out there don’t know what they are doing and haven’t been listening to what I and a few others are saying. This means that even though I cannot always give owners hope for the problems they are facing, even though I am a straight shooter and I don’t always have the answers, they still find me the epitome of what they sought. Unfortunately, by the time these people get to me, the problems they have are so compounded, so messed up from all the shitty advice they got from you that all we can do is try our best to fix them.
Don’t worry, I know full well that you are not listening to me. You didn’t listen to me when I told you straight to your face that you were playing with fire. You kicked me out of your kingdoms, treated me like shit behind my back and carried on as before. That’s why I’m writing it down on the internet where nothing truly ever disappears. At some point the tide will turn and people will have had enough. They will find this blog and hopefully they’ll find what they need. I’ll have moved on, but you won’t have changed – you’ll still be digging yourself and all the dogs a big grave just like Coppinger did.
I, for one, will not cry for you.
One last note.
I’d sure like to spend the last few months on my farm reminiscing and working through all my conflicted feelings; instead I’ll be trying to rehab a LGD who learned early on that he could intimidate his owners into giving him whatever he wanted. His owner came to the experts ages ago to get help, and she could have fixed this problem easily then. Instead, thanks to their crappy advice, the problem grew and grew to where this dog is looking at the business end of a rifle. I may not be able to save him, but I will do my level best. I know he will have the chance with me that he could never get anywhere else in this area. Not only did his owner seek help when he was young, but she sought help all the way through his life; at every turn, online and in person, these self proclaimed experts let her down – sending her to pet trainers and giving her advice that was a complete 180 from what was needed. I would much rather had these people said that they couldn’t help or didn’t know than to do this.
I’m giving this owner my best girl, my heart dog, my Ivy. It’s all I can do as an apology for the painful situation she finds herself in because of my community’s failures. Because of Ivy, this family will learn that an LGD can control themselves with humans and can be both an effective guardian and appropriate with their people. Because of Ivy, they will see that the knowledgeable effort you put into a good dog comes back to you ten fold. I am thankful to be able to give them this gift, no matter how painful it is for me. I know they will give her the love she so richly deserves. It’s a good ending to a very bad, very common story.